Lead with one force and the other doesn't vanish — it nests beneath, contained. Suppress it far enough and the nesting inverts: the caged half rules from inside. Select any scenario to mark where it sits on the wheel.
Angle sets orientation, radius sets imbalance — centre is the still point, the rim is extreme. Possession is the journey across to the opposite seed: ruled, from inside, by the half you exiled.
The way out isn't a better partner. It's growing the force you outsourced — so the relationship stops being life-support for an amputated half.
Integration isn't holding both at fifty-fifty forever. It's no longer being hostage to the half you exiled.